Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

20101228

The Netherlands



Third time in the Netherlands. There are quite some differences in the way we do things and the Dutch do things. Not good or bad, just different.

They take days off for family vacations, summer vacations, winter break, autumn break, etc. They will drive their car with the caravan and go to a camping site in France. It maybe take two days to drive one way. Camping means you set up your camp, and do something, or mostly, not doing anything but sunbathing for days. 

We have perhaps...10 days off every year and after adding up the public holidays we have, usually we spent on a trip to Bali or Korea for exactly how many days we have off. We came back from airport, dropped everything into the washing machine and go right back into work.

Their friends gatherings, or birthday parties, usually is between meals. You have your dinner with family at 6pm, then meet for coffee at somebody's place at 7:30pm. (because everybody should be at home at 5:15pm latest) Everybody is kind of on time. Then it's a big circle of chairs, with coffee or tea or other beverages, in the middle are snacks or a pie. 

Our gatherings start with a dinner, we also meet at 7:30pm (with always somebody late for around 10min) , but perhaps that is the earliest time everybody can get off from work. So we waited for a table at Causeway Bay for 15 min or so, sat down and eat and talk while we eat. There could be a drink afterwards, depending if it is a weekend or not. The rule is, we pretty much would not come back home before 10:30pm. 

Their kids are running around and play with whatever. Summer it's the backyard with grass or plastic swimming pool that they are with, winter time its the skates and ice skating at the pond close by. 

Our kids are pretty much full with their schedule with piano, dance, swimming and painting lessons. Not to mention tutorial classes. But our kids probably dont run just because it's fun to run and jump around.

I grew up here in Hong Kong, and I truly love this city. The fact that I married a Dutch and have visits in Holland taught me the ways to balance our lives as well. 

20101027

Love. No Fear. - Give Thanks


Love. No Fear.
Thanksgiving week in Hong Kong this week. Of course, you can give thanks again on the last week of November.

Some time ago, a school started to replace Halloween celebration to Thanksgiving week as their school activity. Giving thanks is not always a natural thing in our gene, just because we are so used to take things for granted.

Today, I want to thank my parents, for their support and love all the time. I want to thank my husband, Menno, for loving me as who I am, encourage me to go on and contend when i really want to give up or slack off. I want to thank my friends, for walking with me and praying for me. I want to thank my spiritual parents, all of them, in different times they inspire me to have conviction on what i am doing. They pray for me and protect me as I am growing and learning. I want to thank my next generation, most of the time they do radical things with faith, which provoke me to trust in God even more. They challenge me to humble and press on to persue God.

I thank God. He is so faithful. He is good all the time.

20101025

Happy birthday, Menno, Jildou en Renita!

Birthday gift to Menno from me. :) Just see previous post if you still think it's a macbook or an iPad.

Then one morning we realized we are terribly late in sending something to Jildou and Renita for their birthdays...... We took a few days to buy a card and write them and sent them... we are slow, i know. I promise, I will send card before the person's birthday from now on. At least, i would try. 


Few days we received this package at our mail. (And of course, our mailbox is not big enough for this super birthday present!) So excited to open it...

Thanks to family Stoelwinder!!!



And there are still more... i was lazy to take them out from cabinet to take picture. But Menno (and I) really like it!! Oh, especially the rod from sinta Klass!

I am so happy to be able to post this before October ends. :)

20100924

Bride-to-be

Congrats to Joyce and Jeff!! Big day is gonna be in Feb 2011!

We already had our first wedding planning dinner at my home. We have bride and groom-to-be, me (married) and Andrew (who is experienced in organizing weddings... and know Joyce pretty well.)

Andrew and I were basically shooting questions to them... This is actually a process every bride-to-be has to go through. You kind of need to verbalize what exactly you need for decoration, catering, styling, etc. Not until you verbalize it and your friends (or vendor) understand it, it's still a dream in your head.

and here we have the quote of the day...
"Photographs are the ones that matter at the end... your friends can laugh at you all they want on your wedding about how much make up you put on, or how exaggerating the hairstyle is... as long as it looks good on the pictures, it's worth. What are you going to look at in the end? Pictures!"

I have never thought of that before, but I am quite convinced by Andrew's quote. And afterall, Jeff is going to marry you, no matter you put make up or not. Joyce, it's okay...

 [hehe, a pic from my wedding...]